:) I hadn't expected you to out yourselves on my little commentary. It's just as much a lesson to me about not attaching to my little self-identies...including my new job. Y'all remind me about how insidius that kind of thing can be when I think I know what is actually going on. And it reminds me to let go of image and just do a good job to the best of my ability...which goes for my relationship issues too.