tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-05-20:369951 cherydactyl cherydactyl 2009-05-22T12:00:55Z tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-05-20:369951:213804 2009-05-22T12:00:55Z 2009-05-22T12:00:55Z public 1 As we strive to develop compassion for ourselves, it’s important to avoid making “letting go of desire” or “developing compassion for yourself” into new objects of compulsive desire. Becoming obsessive about quickly seeing big results from our efforts is a sign that deluded desire rather than compassion is driving our efforts. Real progress derives from honest introspection, and we cannot analyze our minds carefully when we’re hurried. Transforming our hearts is a gradual, organic process, and successfully cultivating compassion for ourselves necessitates a mature and steady approach.<br /><br />–Lorne Ladner, from The Lost Art of Compassion (HarperSanFrancisco)<br />Tricycle's Daily Dharma for May 22, 2009<br /><br /><img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=cherydactyl&ditemid=213804" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/> comments tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-05-20:369951:507 2009-05-20T11:33:10Z 2009-05-20T11:33:10Z public 2 Was offered a Dreamwidth account code (Thanks!), and am trying it out. I wonder how to transfer old posts. I wonder if comments get copied too. I guess I will find out.<br /><br /><img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=cherydactyl&ditemid=507" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/> comments